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Multiple Orgasms

Gina Bellingham — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 14:06:18 +0000

Some women feel that one is enough and others find that their clitoris is too sensitive after their first orgasm and their just not interested in having any more.

Men have a refractory period after ejaculating which makes multiple orgasms more difficult for them to achieve. Women on the other hand don’t have a refectory period, after their first orgasm they are in the plateau stage and stay aroused for longer and if stimulation is continued more orgasms are possible.

Sequential Multiples:

These are a series of climaxes that come close together with an interruption in arousal. The woman might need a few seconds to relax and then stimulation can continue, with another orgasm occurring within minutes. A likely situation for this to happen is if the clitoris is stimulated manually or orally until climax is reached, followed by another climax during intercourse.

Some women might find that their clitoris is very sensitive after their first orgasm. If direct stimulation is too intense, try indirect stimulation on another part of the genitals. It might help to take deep breaths, rocking your pelvis in time with your breathing, while the energy builds up again in your genitals. Within a few minutes you could find that over stimulation will give way to pleasure.

Serial Multiples:

These are orgasms that come one after the other without interruption in arousal. These are only seconds apart and may feel like on continuous orgasm with multiple peak points. This is likely to be achieved if the clitoris and G-spot are being stimulated simultaneously.

Some women find that their second or third orgasms are more powerful than the first, and some find that their orgasms become progressively less intense.

Do women have wet dreams?

admin — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:58:44 +0000

What is the female equivalent of a wet dream called? Why do women have them? Are they very common? What I really want to know is: is sex mental or physical? Thanks very much for your kind response. I prefer to remain . . .

Sexpert Responds

I respectfully decline to get involved in a metaphysical debate on the nature of sex. Personally, I prefer mine warm, sticky, and covered with chocolate. However, to each his own.

If by "wet dream" you mean a nocturnal emission, there is no precise female equivalent, because women rarely ejaculate fluid at the point of orgasm (there are exceptions, but we won’t get into that right now). On the other hand, women do have nocturnal orgasms, though not so frequently as men.

It’s estimated that by age 45, 40 percent of all women have had a nocturnal orgasm at least once, compared to 80 percent of males. Fewer than 10 percent of women, compared to 50 percent of males, report having nocturnal orgasms more than five times a year. Men often experience their first orgasm during a wet dream, but women rarely have nocturnal orgasms until they have had orgasm by some other means first.

In both sexes, nocturnal orgasms are often accompanied by erotic dreams, but that’s not invariably the case. Wet dreams usually make little impression on men, but women sometimes have quite vivid sexual dreams in connection with nocturnal orgasms, so much so that on occasion the dreamer may believe she has actually had sex.

Medieval theologians posited the existence of "incubi," demons who had intercourse with women while they slept (the "succubus" is the equivalent for males). Witches claimed to have had intercourse with the devil in this way, and were sometimes put to death on account of it–a grim indication of the depth of male paranoia regarding female sexual response.

Private Swingers Parties

Gina Bellingham — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 10:48:27 +0000

Forget about starting a cooking or a book club. Why not start your very own private swingers club or host your own private swinging party? Read on to find out exactly how to do this.

Starting your own private swingers club or hosting a wife-swapping party is a lot of fun and a very satisfying “hobby” – if I’m allowed to call it that. When you attend someone else’s swapping party or club, you have to fall in with what the host likes. If you host your own adult evening then you can call the shots and decide if you want a discreet partner swapping club that involves soft swapping and flirtatious socializing or an adult party that is more of an orgy with naked bodies performing group sex everywhere. You can even decide what type of adults you want to invite. Maybe this will be strictly gay or only for couple, the bottom line is you get to decide.

When you are the host of a private swingers club or even a once-off-adult evening then most of the responsibility lies with you. You have to plan and execute everything from sending out the invites, to making the newbies feel comfortable. If someone steps out of line and harasses your guests then you have to handle the situation and either have a firm word with the person or ask them to leave.

Swingers love to unwind at a private swingers party with some alcohol so make sure that you tell your guests to BYOB (bring your own booze) or to get a drinks sponsor. Alternatively you can ask for a cover charge and use that money to provide finger food and drinks. It’s also your responsibility to make sure that the swingers etiquette is followed at your club and that people only drink what they bring.

Health and hygiene is very important and you should have a shower facility at your private swingers club that swingers can use before they go home. Also have a stack of condoms available that everyone can use for safe sex. Breath mints, deodorant and tissues can also come in handy. Not everyone feels comfortable with swinging in the group room. So make sure that you have a few bedrooms available for private swinging.

Now that you know the basic rules and steps to host a private swingers party or start your own private swingers club we encourage you to get started right away and remember to have fun!

Swingers in London

Gina Bellingham — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 11:41:59 +0000

People across the world are obsessed with the English life and culture. There is even a word "Anglophile" that describes this affliction for all things British, from the way they dress and speak to the way London swingers have sex. Some of the famous people that got caught up in the phenomenon include Madonna, Courtney Love, Jonny Depp and Paul Getty.

London swingers are famous for the fabulous adult sex parties that they host. These sophisticated Adult parties’ gives couples and singles the chance to have no-strings sex with local London swingers in a sexy environment. Single males, single females and swinging couples can get invited to these parties by becoming a member of an online adult site for free!

Downtown London is notorious for adult activities like gang bangs, bukkake and greedy girls parties. Swingers from other countries have got a lot to learn from London swingers who pride themselves on being on top of the latest sex craze. It’s common knowledge that British women like Kate Moss are sex crazy and that’s why greedy girl parties work so well in London. At these parties females can have sex with as many handsome men as they like.

London has always been a place for individuals and many subculture groups like the punks and metal heads started here. Swingers in London have also branched out from just white suburban middle class to include interracial swingers, gay swingers and transsexuals. Young people from places like South Africa flock to London for work and for this reason the London swingers community now include a lot of young people from different cultures and backgrounds.

An adult activity like dogging was made famous by London swingers, even though dogging originated in the United States. There isn’t a car-park, lay-by or park in London that hasn’t been turned into a dogging spot by London swingers. Some people even go as far as to say there is something in the London air, during spring time ,that turns ordinary adults into sex-crazy swingers that does it more than rabbits.

Join our free online community and meet London swingers at Wet-Kitty.co.uk!

To Enjoy Sex , Practice Swinger’s Sex

admin — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:40:57 +0000

Swinging began in 50’s in America and it is not a sex technique but a lifestyle. Today swinging has spread far and wide and is most popular in the western world including Australia and New Zealand. Swingers or adult swingers as they are called follow the swinger’s lifestyle as has come to existence in modern times.

In countries with closed cultures where tradition and orthodoxy is deep rooted swinging is practically unheard of. But in countries or rather societies which have experienced sexual liberation and freed themselves of traditional mores and dogmas, swinging has taken deep roots. Although it is not widespread to that extent were swinging is expected as a social custom or norm. The reason is swinging is not for all. It is only for those couples who are willing to share their partners or sexuality in agreement with each other and in full knowledge of each other. Since the bondage among singing couples is nowhere broken or weak on the contrary the marital bonds are very strong to permit sex with others in full faith and trust. Swinging is definitely not advised for couples who have disturbed marriage or a disputed affair as many experts advise. The marriage can rock further if jealousy sets in for a great degree of maturity and understanding is required for swinging. Hence swinging is for mature couples.

As most swingers have expressed that their marital bonds have become stronger after they entered the world of adult swingers. The reason is that couples may not find full sexual satisfaction or may not be able to experience their sexuality to the fullest in a monogamous relationship. Swinging allows couples to experience their sexuality to the fullest with the involvement of different sex partners with which they have accepted to enjoy sex. The sex combinations may be threesome foursome or group sex according to the preference of the swingers. Partner exchange or wife swapping can be for sex in same room or in different rooms. Many such factors apply in swinging.

Swinging is not wild sex as people think. There are rules and etiquette to which are adhered to very strictly by swingers. First of all there is no cheating involved as the couples indulge in swinging with the acceptance of each other and in full knowledge of each other. Swinging just does not take place between any swingers rather the partners are carefully chosen in likeness of both husband and wife. The sexual preference and limitations are strictly maintained as per the swingers desires and no violation of privacy of any kind is tolerated.

The best way that couple can enter swinging is to join a swingers club that entertains newbie or amateur swingers although one can enter straight way through personals ads in swingers personals of a dating sites or in a swingers party. But swingers club are sticklers for rules and etiquette and hence bring more comfort for the nervous couple who is experiencing swinging for the first time.

Follow the norms and advice and you will enjoy swinging – just be sure whether you wish for this lifestyle or it can be embarrassing or even heart breaking for you and your wife.

Last but not the least please practice safe sex – use a condom always.

How to Make a Girl Wet

admin — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 08:16:14 +0000

If you are with a girl that you plan to get sexual with you may be nervous as to how to make a girl wet. If the girl is not wet when you get ready to have sex or finger her, you may feel incompetent in the love making department. But this usually isn’t the case as women will tell you if they have a medical condition where they can’t get wet or their vagina is naturally dry, but the usual cause is that men don’t do enough foreplay or at least not the proper way to make a girl wet. A strong relationship is a must too as women connect their bodily functions, especially sex, to her emotions about her.

Smell great. Wear a cologne that you know drives her wild. When you are close in a relationship you will be able to ask her these things beforehand and know what scents on you turn her on.
Kiss her gently. Slowly kiss her lips and kiss them softly. Slowly insert your tongue into her mouth. Try not to probe her mouth right away, rather be sensual and subtle. Gently suck on her tongue. Gently bite her bottom lip.
Slowly move to her neck. Kiss her neck gently starting at her chin and work your way down to her collarbone and then kiss along the neckline of her shirt. Try not to make it a wet kiss. As you work your way up her neck again and to her ear, you can gently bite and suck her neck as this is a top erogenous zone.
Once you are at her ear, kiss the ear lobe then gently breathe into her ear. Remember women are very mentally into sexual pleasure, so whisper anything sexual at this time, such as “You are so sexy.” Then continue to kiss her ear. Lick her ear lobe gently and slightly probe your tongue into her ear.
Gently kiss back down her neck and to the center of her breasts. Kiss around the entire area around each of her breasts. Slowly kiss your way toward a nipple. Kiss the nipple then gently blow on it. Lick around the entire nipple and then gently suck on the nipple. While kissing around her breasts, gently rub the tips of your fingers over her abdomen, stomach side areas and along her underwear line.
Kiss down in between her breasts and down to her navel or belly button. Gently lick her belly button. Run the tips of your fingers along the sides of her ribs. Kiss gently along her underwear line. All these steps together will 99% of the time get her wet.

Steamy Sex Secrets He Wants You To Know

Gina Bellingham — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 11:25:16 +0000

Men are full of surprises. And bedroom behaviour is no exception. Men have their secrets and they want their wives to know them. It’s true that all men have sex secrets. Not the dark sultry secrets of an affair, but a restraint in sharing some cravings or the details of his day-to-day thoughts and actions with his wife – inside and out of the marriage. He may not reveal romance strategies or feelings of vulnerability or shame. These are things that men may have learned, over time, to keep to themselves. Because a man does not always openly express his emotions, women too often feel that his ‘unavailability’ is intentional, that his silence is an unwillingness to open up. Men are actually full of thoughts and feelings, but unable to meet the standards that too many put on them to openly communicate them. So, what powerful facts about themselves do all men want to share with their spouses? Here are eight sex secrets that may help you understand – and get even closer to – your man.

He wants you to dress up for him

A long, long time ago, your husband bought you some lingerie. Remember? You wore it once or twice, then stuffed it deep in the back of a drawer. Well, the time has come to dig it out. Consider dressing for his tastes and not just yours once in a while. When you dress for him, he takes it as a sign that you still care enough to make the effort. Men are visual creatures and get a lot of sexual mileage out of what they see. So, some sexy lingerie will go a long way to rekindle the passion you share. Surprise him by slipping into something he will find exciting. And, there is something about lace, ribbons, feathers, or not-so-subtle sheer material that drives a man wild. And honestly, who can blame him? Plus, when you indulge in sexy lingerie, do not get too hung up about your appearance or stretch marks. Movies and fashion magazines may make women feel they must have taut tummies and look model-perfect, but men say they appreciate real women with foibles and imperfections. And personality counts! Your insecurity will rob you and your husband of precious moments together. So, when your husband says you look beautiful and sexy just the way you are, believe him. Dust off the lingerie and fire up the candles.

He Wants You to Initiate Lovemakeing

If your husband is always the one to start things up, eventually he’ll wonder, ‘Why doesn’t she ever initiate lovemaking? Doesn’t she want me anymore? A man wants nothing more than to know he’s sexually desirable to you – that you want him like crazy. Guys chronically complain that they always have to initiate sex. When you take the lead, you’re explicitly telling him that you love to spend time with him – it immediately eliminates the guesswork for your guy. What’s more, when you approach him, you’re in the driver’s seat. Too many women let men call the sexual shots between the sheets. Being the initiator gives you an opportunity to set the tone and the pace.

He Craves For Sexual Affirmation

Men have insecurities too. They may never tell anyone this, but they are secretly vulnerable. How does a woman help change the insecurity to confidence? Affirmation and compliments! To men, affirmation from their wives means everything! So, be explicit in letting your husband know what you enjoy. Men, love those kind of directions. It’s affirming for a man to know that you think he’s a great lover. When men receive regular and genuine positive attention and compliments from their wives, they tend to become much more secure and confident in all areas of their lives.

He Wants To Be Your Hero

What part of a man most enjoys being stroked? Answer: His ego! Show your man that you really need him. Men, just like women, simply need to be wanted. Regular, fulfilling sex is critical to a man’s sense of feeling loved and desired. Plus, remember to compliment your spouse on being a great husband. It’s a quick shortcut to making him feel wanted, needed and loved. And this positive reinforcement of your husband’s good behaviour will yield big dividends later, as he subconsciously tries to live up to your glowing appraisal. Here’s another secret: Pamper him sometimes. You can set a day to give him a massage, set up a hot bath, etc. What makes such royal treatment so romantic to a man is the way it reassures him that you appreciate him and that you’re proud of him. Many women today don’t realise how vulnerable men are and how much they need love too.

He Wants Passionate Lovemaking

Men love passionate women. Men want to be desired and loved. Letting them know that you’re passionate about them will turn them on every time and pave the way for great lovemaking. Women who are great lovers put energy in from start to finish. Plus, displaying tons of enthusiasm encourages your man to bring you to new heights. The more you get into it, the harder he’ll work to please you.

He Loves Unexpected Touches

Yes, it’s true. The slightest touch from you can bring a man to his knees mid-sentence. In other words, let your fingers do the talking. Even those quick bicep rubs when your man gets back from the gym, or those errant shoulder squeezes, can send your man over the moon. While coffee is pretty good, your gentle peck is really the best part of waking up. It’s as if out of the blue, you were so overcome by his breathtaking cuteness that you just had to give him a cuddle. And men adore your tender touch in the bedroom as well. Because contrary to popular belief, guys aren’t just looking for fast-track orgasmic manoeuvres in the dark. They want and need intimacy, touch and passion too.

He Wants Novelty

Once a couple has been together for a while, they often develop a sexual routine. It’s not always a negative thing as it is usually mutually satisfying. So what’s the problem? There could be a new technique that one or both of you like but haven’t discovered yet. What to do? Mix things up a bit. If the bedroom is your primary lovemaking venue, why not steam things up in the shower? "And it’s worth adding some variety to the old ‘he does that, then you do this’ choreography. Swap things around or throw a new position into the mix. Make sure monogamy and monotony don’t become synonymous. The trick for a married couple is to maintain a degree of novelty, by providing variety in activity, location and type of stimulation. Many men find that experimenting with positions, styles and acts takes on a new importance as they age. They say that variation not only keeps them aroused, but it satisfies different cravings. Better sex isn’t necessarily wilder sex, after all. There are things you can do to spice up sex once in a while.

He Is Excited By Your Sexual Intensity & Assertiveness

When you openly tell him what you desire and what feels good, you instantly put yourself into an active role as opposed to a responsive one. Verbal feedback is crucial to your pleasure. It helps to develop your own sexual language. Some women can’t talk dirty. And that’s okay. You should try to find a new way to let your husband know what feels great in a way that’s comfortable for you. It might be words, it might be moans, but figure out how to let him know you’re loving every minute of it or at least which minutes you’re loving.

POLYAMORY

Gina Bellingham — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 00:00:00 +0000

The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved.

HOT WIFE

Gina Bellingham — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 00:00:00 +0000

A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men.

CUCKOLDRESS

Gina Bellingham — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 00:00:00 +0000

A woman who cuckolds her husband. The husband, or boyfriend, is a cockold

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